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The Blackchelorette

I'm Shani, The Blackchelorette. People I meet often tell me I'm kind, loving, perverse, passionate, and sagacious. I'm living my best life filled with adventure and I strive to inspire the world around me by being my authentic self.

 

I describe myself as fun-loving, gregarious and courageously curious. I am quite charming too. I adopted the title "The Blackchelorette" because Black women are not portrayed in main stream culture as viable romantic interests.

 

In fact if I let the quote unquote experts tell my story of being a single Black Woman the tag line of me being unmarried is always "that's a personal problem." What if being single is not a problem at all? I created the 50 First Dates Challenge to have fun celebrating my independence and freedom. I went on 50 solo dates meaning (me, myself, and I) and that is how I found true love. Now I'm sharing this journey with the world.

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My coaching has made more than a thousand connections last year alone. Who do you know ready to deepen their connections in life and find true love?

 

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"You have lived to tell the story. Now write the story you want to live."

My Mission

I'm living my best life filled with fun and adventure. I show up as my authentic self and strive to inspire the world around me to build deeper connections in life and in love. I want to share the gift of how I found true love through self discovery. Follow my journey through my blog, social media, and podcast. This is a journey to find true love. Are you ready?

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